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Purobeach Marbella Birthday

We got to spend my Birthday week in Marbella again, which is one of my favourite things to do. And we got to spend my actual Birthday at Purobeach. It was an ace day.

In fact, the whole week was ace. We spent time lying down, eating, drinking and generally relaxing. So many highlights, including disovering a new-ish restaurant from local chef Dani Garcia. Lobito de Mar was a fanstastic discovery – fresh seafood, little nibbles, HUGE martini’s and all set in a stylish, Hamptons-vibe restaurant. Of course, we opted to sit at the bar, which is always first choice for me.

We stayed at the NH just outside Marbella, which is cost-effective and really good value. They’ve got a nice pool and you can easily get around the local area. The local bus stops practically outside, the cabs are not too expensive and it’s a lovely stroll along the beach in either direction to Marbella or Puerto Banus. We’ve been there so many times before the Wifi picked up my phone both at the hotel and the neighbouring bar, Boca Seca.

This time, as well as Lobito de Mar, we ate at a few different places. We found excellent Pinxos in Marbella called Le Kune, we had great cocktails at Trocadero Playa and we travelled the other side of Marbella to go to The Beach House. A bit of a trek, but the food and Cosmo’s made up for it. We also lunched at La Milla and ate (excellent) ‘experimental’ tapas by streelight in Marbella old town at Garnacha.

I can’t wait to go back.

 

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Macau – ‘the Vegas of China’

You have to take the ferry to get to Macau, so we checked out of our hotel and made our way to the ferry terminal, which, like most things in Hong Kong, is in a mall. It was a bit of a mad scramble but we worked out how to buy tickets and where to queue for our ferry. We even had a lovely soup before we left.

The journey itself on the Cotai Ferry took about an hour and was really comfortable. Like most places in Hong Kong it had free wifi and as we’d booked first class we got snacks and a drink. The only seats that were left were in first, and we were keen to get there. On the way back we returned in economy and it’s just as good, you just don’t get the box of mystery snacks!

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We had also booked to stay at the Grand Hyatt in Macau, and this was even more impressive than the one in Hong Kong – especially as they upgraded us to a suite larger than some of the flats I’ve lived in. However, we did discover one shocking thing – the hotel DIDN’T have a bar. Actually, what we realised pretty quickly, was neither do the casino’s. This is a big difference between Macau and Vegas – although they have similarities and in some cases exactly the same hotels (There’s a Venetian and a Wynn in Macau) the vibe is very different. Macau is about serious gambling, and there is no real drinking/cocktail culture to go alongside that. So we decided to go and find a bar, and didn’t have to go far. Across the road from us was the Wynn Hotel, which you had to get a very cute cable car to.

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It went all round the lake, over musical fountains and was really good fun. So, deposited at the doorway of the Wynn we headed for the nearest (and only) bar. And what a bar. It was quite literally, fabulous. A vision of rich gold, jade green and mirrored loveliness. It sounds over the top, but actually it was gorgeous. Very well done and very comfortable. My picture definitely doesn’t do it justice, so I’ve used this one from the Wynn Palace Hotel website.

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And they served the biggest Martin’s in the world.

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Even the ladies toilets in The Wynn were gorgeously decorated.

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Once we’d had our cocktail top-up it was back to our hotel for some time in the Casino. The next day we went out exploring in Macau old town, which was fascinating. It felt very Chinese – different to Hong Kong. There is a strong Portugese influence, dating back to when it was a Portugese territory, so you can get egg tarts everywhere – though it was impossible to find a coffee shop. We walked and walked and came across temples and great shops selling cute tea sets (I really wish I’d bought one) and lovely food. There was even a shop that sold only Portugese tinned fish.

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Then it was back to the Hotel and all too soon we were getting up the next morning to head back to Hong Kong for the last part of the holiday.

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2016: Part 2

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It’s not technically the mid-way point of the year yet, but hitting the longest day does feel like a milestone. It certainly feels a long time since my holiday in India at Christmas, and this is a good moment to take a breath and mark the first six months of 2016 – and more importantly, look forward to the second half of the year.

Although January seems a long time ago, time seems also to have flown by since then. I started the year rested, but not entirely happy at work. I was starting to ask myself questions about what the next few years will look like (must be turning 45 that did that!) and whether I was excited and inspired where I was.  After running my own business for such a long time, I was sure it wasn’t a hidden longing to go back to doing that full time, but more the feeling of not being happy where I was that was starting to creep up on me. Some fairly significant changes around Easter-time were unsettling, but quite quickly in the few weeks after that all the things that were bothering me were resolved and I am now the happiest I’ve been at work for a long time. I’m working on some great service design projects, with real grown-up business and delivery challenges. I’ve helped to bring in a new piece of business from a personal contact and building a team and seeing people develop beyond your expectations is properly joyous. There’s exciting things in the pipeline and I’ve reminded myself that when I’m happy, I’m hungry. Hungry to do good work with great people and to keep learning everyday.

When it comes to work, I’ve got the butterflies back in my belly. Yay!

But, I am tired. Really blinkin’ tired.

With the ups this year has come some downs – my Nan has been unwell for most of the year and in and out of hospital. At 90 years old it’s always upsetting when she gets ill, you can’t help wondering if she’ll recover and it puts massive pressure on my Mum and her sister. Last month my Dad was hospitalised and had to have surgery a week or so ago. It turned out not to be as bad as it could have been, thankfully, but for a time we were unsure, and once again we repeated the pattern of a Summer spent visiting hospitals. For my Mum, between my Nan and my Dad, it’s the fourth one on the trot. So I’m not the only one that’s tired.

Because it’s been a tough couple of years in that respect, and I haven’t spent a huge amount of time with my parents this year, we decided to book a family holiday – just the 3 of us.  A lovely, relaxing mid-year break to recharge the batteries. That was curtailed by Dad’s illness and has now been rescheduled for later in July. I’m trying not to look forward to it too much, just in case lightning strikes twice in the same year, but it really can’t come quick enough. In fact, through lack of planning rather than by design, I seem to have bunched everything up and I’ve got a rocking part 2 of the year to look forward to, including:

  • Going back to the gym – again
  • A week in Antigua with the parents – sunshine, rest, cocktails and spa
  • Aperol Spritz’s in the sun
  • Race for Life in Hyde Park
  • A week in Spain with the husband – cycling (him), lying around (me) and some Birthday fun in Marbs
  • Going out more on the back of the motorbike
  • Losing some more weight
  • A quick trip to Italy, to meet Madgie after his epic ride from Venice to Rome
  • Seeing Funny Girl in July
  • Afternoon Tea at The Savoy
  • A walk over The Dome
  • Going to the theatre to see Patrick Stewart and Ian McKellen
  • 2 days in Barcelona with the the boys – now 18 and 21. Looking forward to taking them abroad and showing them the sights
  • And possibly…a trip to Cartegena to watch him give the motorbike a spin round the track and catch some late November sun

Then…dare I say it, planning a Christmas at home, which will be a novelty. I bet it whizzes to December 🙂

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The Lalit Hotel, Bekal, Kerala

The Lalit Hotel in Bekal is about 2 hours from Mangalore airport in Northern Kerala. There are only a couple of hotels in this area, as it’s largely uncommercialised and not yet fully on the tourist trail.

We had the hotel car pick us up from the airport as we didn’t fancy a 2 hour drive in the back of a cab. The driving in India is a pretty crazy white-knuckle ride, but at least with the hotel drivers you have more of a chance of them understanding your frantic instructions to ‘slow down’ and ‘whoa…don’t overtake on a blind hill/bend/bridge PLEASE!’

First impressions were good, we were greated with a Bindi, and a glass of kiwi juice and cold towels. We were then taken to our room in a golf buggy. We’d booked the Spa Room, which was lovely – large and well designed, with a gorgeous private patio and an outdoor jacuzzi. We never used the jacuzzi, but it looked nice!

In Kerala, non 5-star hotels are not allowed to serve ‘liquor’ (basically, any spirits). The sale of spirits is not permitted in any part of the state other than certain hotels, so we had a pretty alcohol-free week, with just the odd beer. We found out later that the cost of the alcohol licence is huge and most places can’t afford to buy them, as they struggle to make their money back. Wine is incredibly expensive in India, even the local brand, Sula, so we didn’t bother with it. Being almost booze-free on holiday was a bit odd to start with, but was quite an enjoyable change as we got into it.

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The hotel only had one restaurant, and we were worried that might be a bit limiting, but the range of food on the menu was really varied, and there was a full buffet pretty much every day.  The food was excellent, lots of South and North Indian dishes and a good range of western food for the days when we fancied something bland. On New Years Eve they really pushed the boat out, with an amazing buffet and entertainment.

The Lalit has to be the quietest hotel I’ve ever stayed at – we were quite often the only people round the pool.  At times it was like having our own resort, and when other people were around they were all Indian families – we were the only westerners in the hotel, which was lovely.  There is a great spa in its own building, I thoroughly recommend the Auyervedic full body massage and there is kayaking on the river, which we didn’t try.

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This is definitely not an average holiday spot, and I would only recommend it if you are happy doing absolutely nothing. There’s not much to do in the surrounding area either, so make sure you have plenty of books to keep you amused. But if you want somewhere to rest, relax and recouperate it’s perfect. The rooms are spacious an the beds comfy. Oh, and beware – there’s only 1-hour a day of free wifi access, which makes you really think about what you want to look at online!

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Day off

Bonfire night. And my first weekday off from work in a while. We went into Brighton and had a cocktail at Bohemia and lunch at English’s. Then we came home and watched some tv, before going out for cocktails and a Thai dinner locally. Wonderful day. This is us sitting outside The Dorset, hiding from the rain.

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Lingerie heaven

My last day at work for this week – not sure I’ve ever been so excited to have 2 days off. Not because I have anything planned, but because I could do with a rest. Once I’d finished work I made my way to a nice evening out for a meal and chats with my friend Katie. She asked me to meet her at her shop in Reigate and she treated me to 2 lovely new lingerie sets as a late Birthday present. What a wonderful treat.

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This week I’m thinking about…

Work – there’s lots of it, and it’s taking over most of my waking-hour thoughts at the moment. Good thing I like my job.

Getting old – my Nan is not very well and had a fall earlier in the week. The balance between independence in the home and safety is a fine one. Upsetting times.

Motorbikes – I’m missing not being part of a race team this year. Mind you, it’s good for the mileage on the car and for not losing weekends. Every cloud.

Holidays – not until Christmas, but there is a cheeky week off planned in September. Maybe we’ll whizz somewhere on the motorbike.

All the stuff I want to do, but don’t seem to have the time. Situation normal.